tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5979450665591955790.post2265961993916755875..comments2024-01-28T22:59:46.740+08:00Comments on 35 is the defining age: Being Happy and Finding MeaningRetireby35.SgStylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15736910260855155490noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5979450665591955790.post-61593951702199411832018-06-13T12:29:54.189+08:002018-06-13T12:29:54.189+08:00IMO Happiness is a choice of being grateful for wh...IMO Happiness is a choice of being grateful for what we have and not dwell on what we have not, a choice of making the best out of the circumstance that we are in. <br />:)Rainbowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17762360552800572152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5979450665591955790.post-21820464505478670912018-04-12T16:50:40.523+08:002018-04-12T16:50:40.523+08:00I believe you can make happiness happen. Probably ...I believe you can make happiness happen. Probably you might want to look for a new job? After all you are still in your early 30s like me and we still have a look way to go. Work takes up half of our time, it's not worth it being unhappy half of our lives!Jeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12519573577327538496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5979450665591955790.post-75488240024739725642018-04-12T00:26:08.589+08:002018-04-12T00:26:08.589+08:00Totally agree. Though training yourself to think i...Totally agree. Though training yourself to think in this Stoical fashion takes a load of hard work and does not come instinctively, at least to me. <br /><br />Essentially, I presume what you are saying is probably to create space and choose to think about whether to respond to a particular sensation, and that I feel, requires hard training. Luckily I'm only in my early thirties and blessed with many situations during work to practice this on :) Retireby35.SgStylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15736910260855155490noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5979450665591955790.post-12924875103257438812018-04-02T11:18:18.182+08:002018-04-02T11:18:18.182+08:00I tend to think that happiness is a choice rather ...I tend to think that happiness is a choice rather than by circumstance. As cliche as it might sound, you might not choose to be in the circumstance you are in but you can choose how to react to it. Kate@Minimalistinthecityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14902419972200275566noreply@blogger.com